Loneliness
In the course of a normal day, we meet almost 30 people on an average every day. This figure excludes the people with whom we interact virtually on phone or by greetings or those who notice us, but whom we fail to notice. Isn't it strange that we are surrounded by a multitude of crowd and yet most of us experience a sense of loneliness, but thats the core reality, that happens with most of us.
Loneliness is a state of mind. Since birth we are bound by several bonds of realtions, be it a father, mother or our siblings or our relatives. With age we share a part of us with friends, collegues, yet there is a high level of loneliness which creeps in our mind if our mind is not occupied. The whole life we spend our lives in the search of a right life partner, who would truly understand the depth of our mind, but what about people undergoing broken marriages, shatterred relationships, orphans and even the richest of people who can't share their grievances with the people around.
Isn't it true that the man at the highest postion experience solitude. The tip of the sword hangs on his head and he is a lone warrior. Truly there are no gains without pains.
More meaning can be aded to life, if everyday we try filling the void of loneliness in other sufferer's mind. That would definately consume a little bit of our time, BUT would truly justify our existence !!
posted by Komal Rastogi at 2:52 AM
6 Comments:
First of all i dont agree with Ur view points why
1: Its all about taking things for granted ..Think abt it.. u are born, parents love u .. than u go to school u talk to kids around u and finnaly u grow up with them so they are all ur best frds . U dont value them.. so now when u move abroad or away from ur own created comfortable zone u tend to be lonely.
2: Conti.. for above derivation u can say that its all abt the mental state and how as a person u are.. if u are extrovert u might make new frds. if introvert than u wont But the point i am making here is are those new frds equal to the old one..
12:33 AM
i think, its the matter of personal priorities like wat u prefer- working (office work) or interacting socially or yur hobbies.... there needs to be a gud balance
i strongly agree with yur last 1 para...
10:48 AM
hey girl..1st of all kudos for being brave enough to express yourself out loud. All I want to tell you is that life is a journey and we need to make it through. It is our personal choice if we want to go through it alone or with someone. I agree completely that it is a state of mind. I had similar thoughts recently and ironically enough wrote a blog on it too. If you wanna find some solace by reading mine, then go ahead and read it. Once again, keep writing and expressing. I recently discovered the joys of expression through writing :-).
6:57 AM
One step further to understand tanhae. ..
Same thing gulzaar also said,
"Tanhae Khala nahi karati kyonki khaali nahi hoti" -- My interpretation is u are never alone .. .because tanhae tumhare sath hai. . .
In term Mathematics , u have a set which has a “NULL SET” as a sub set.
Thoughts!!
8:40 AM
Loneliness shouldn't be confused with solitude. Solitude is when you reflect, where you want to listen to that inner voice.
Loneliness , on the other hand is what I would definitely try and avoid, but given no other options, loneliness it is. It's a personal choice. You can do something on your own, or you could ask someone to just tag along for the sake of not being alone. Go for a picture(which only you might like that is :-)) alone....or ask someone to come along, listen to him tell a 1001 excuses (other than he doesn't want to) and finally put up with his sulking.
"It's lonely at the top... but the view is magnificent". People at the top, choose (or is it want? Hmmm....) to be at the top, even though it's lonely.
9:42 AM
nice post with mix of comments..don't know wat i can comment but i liked the last line :)
1:12 AM
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