Godly Touch

Blessed are those who get the motherly love , the fatherly care , the sisterly respect , the brotherly support , relatives faith and the grandparents guidance . Only with the presence of all this around , we proceed with our lives with a peaceful mind Ask a child who had none .. Also ask a child who had all , but the warmth of each of the above was missing . With both parents working and all siblings living to meet the competitive standards of the world around and even more than the above , communication gap may be a reason for a lot many young girls and boys to faulter in adolescence Golden were the olden days when the families had a caring house mother , who would wait for the door bell to ring , and flung her arms open to hug the kids . This is the electronic and the IT age . Most couples are not available to enjoy that magical moment . Its either official or business commitments and all that welcomes a child is a House Lock , which he /she has to unlock him/herself Also the parents of the couple are either in different cities or the couple themselves choose to have their share of privacy and live in nuclear family . Here is a small but real story Tiya dreamt of conquering the world , wanted to gain immense fame but always wanted a living persona to confirm her actions , her thoughts ,her dreams and above all a patient listener who would approve and advice . Communication gap , Busy office hours and non availability of time for emotions , drew away the Career Oriented Parents , from the dream world living girl . Moreover , Physical expression of anger , unnecessary scoldings , avoidable beatings , frustration and mechanical live style , drifted the young girl to find solace in school friends . The mother daughter bonding never happened in growing formative years when it was needed most , there was no way that now Tiya could bank on the mothers shoulders in adolescence . Friend Circle grew day by day . School staff said , it was a "second home" , " a home away from home" .. the tiny mind of Tiya always rephrased it as "first home" , "the only home". Atleast the teachers and the friends saw a spark in the girl and encouraged to move to higher avenues in life For the external world , the worldly eyes saw a very normal family , but from inside things were rotting . Getting to rot to the core . It was soon time to leave school .. time to leave best confidants . Once again it was the birth of the next generation of young ladies and young males who had the fire to do something and make a living Youth phase came spedily in full bloom and College life awaited with several times more enthusiasm . An altogether new phase started . So far only thoughts and intelligence was admired at school but college saw a different admiration . The most awaited phase of a girls life , the appreciation of beauty by fellow male collegues , the never moving eyes of the spectators , the acclamation of the batch mates and the glued vision of even the unknown . The opposite pole attraction waves started moving steadily at the speed of lightenting . Thhe uncanny waves may be misleading , they may lead you to the safe harbour or may throw you at the defunct one Unfortunately the latter happened . The young naive boat took the route shown by any & every wave that seemed soothing and comforting in times of thunder , and Tiya gave that wave a full control . The shores were rough and were way too many . The boat was toyed and tainted so much that for her it became adventourous . The boat just wanted the feeling of being wanted and the loving caress of the beaming shores to rest in peace . She was like a free bird , none watching , none to create any boundaries and none to sit through the rights and the wrongs and above all still no peace ! Down home , all saw the bodily existence but the emotions were wrapped in stiff muslin cloth with several foldings . Had the mother ever stepped down from the professional duties to a motherly duty and had the father ever seen the world beyond just making a living , perhaps the young girl would have felt her limitations The faith in the institution of marriage is most often , lost in such kids , who have lived much more than they have actually seen . Marriage was a nothing more than a sheer mechanical phase of life
The young girl started running away from her parents to explore her dreams . She didnt want to be party, any more to the mechanical life where emotions were given least importance and life was totally undirectional .
Finally after years of rough phases , God decided to be flexible .The undirectional phase of life was about to end . God Himself decided to send His own harbinger to take care of His girl baby . The girl who had just given and given in the lure of getting back love
By luck and extreme destiny Tiya met God in the disguise of a mentor . The exploration of common interests and complimentary qualities , gelled the chemistry like an unbreakable bond . The impossible Godly touch was finally happening .But Tiya was scared that her doomed past and family relations would ruin the Godly Touch and drift the dream man away . The very thought sadded Tiya . Its aptly said truth speaks for itself and in hard times the person by our side , is the truest if friends
After the relevation of Truth , Lady Love started smiling and now there was no earthly bolster to spoil the relation . Its a true saying that when you want to achieve something from heart , the whole world around you unknowingly starts pooling in to help.
The Harbinger cared for the girl like a fairy and promised to be by her side whenever she faultered . The Godly touch made the girl feel so precious and made her gain a lot of the lost self confidence . All that he did was pure , genuine , selfless love .
The dreams got a direction , life got a reason and social boundaries got drawn .The harbinger was a package of all father , mother , family love , all bound in one human body . The only dream now , was not to let go off this Godly touch away even for a nanosecond . The fear of seclusion , isolation was gone and only happiness and a sense of security had filled every nook and corner of the heart and the body .
Only few are lucky to get such people around be it as life partners , parents , siblings, God Fathers , God Mothers or friends as true guides . The young girl found the dream man after facing a lot of self created or situational created miseries . The old retired parents are yet to find the daughter with whom they never built the emotional bonding !
Its a small but a very true message :

Hatred can only whine , Love is blind , But only true Love can bind ! Lets not get so involved in our jobs and build such a thick wall that even our lovables cant break those walls . Life is very small and very unpredicatable . The Godly touch may come to some but not to all .. Wouldnt it be a great idea if instead of waiting for the Magical Godly touch to happen , we ourselves start the touch for others around us and make this Earth as Gods own abode !